I have this unspoken rule concerning this blog, that I’ve never really shared with you (i.e. hence the unspoken part). But I think it is time that I share a little more about who I am and my intent.

There have been a lot of different things going on, lots of stories to share; but I’ve been keeping my mouth quiet, because I didn’t want to write fueled only by mindless passion.

Unspoken Rule = Don’t write on emotion alone.

This blog is meant to be an outlet for me to vent the crazy-wild ride of living with my ex, but that doesn’t mean that I want it to turn into an emotional dumping ground. Sure, its base-nature will be highly emotional. I can’t avoid that. But I can do my best to avoid just ranting in anger. Better to rant with intellect and thoughtfulness.

I want my posts to be entertaining and thought-provoking; even, educational and enlightening, if I can score that. I don’t want to you to come to my blog and see a grown woman throwing a tantrum over her very own decisions. These are the consequences that I’ve chosen, after all. No reason why I should spend my precious energy do nothing but complaining about it.

And so, I can’t promise to not ever rant (I’m sure that I already have and I will be guilty of it again), but I want more than just that in my content. And I hope that you will appreciate my position on that…


To those who follow my blog with email notifications, I am now “unblocked.” Having scaled the plateau of my emotions, at least for the time being, I will be posting more frequently. And I am sorry for the possible bombardment of your inbox.